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Suggestion. Set both temperature controls to say 72F and press the "Auto" Button. Do not press any other buttons. The system will automatically provide heating or cooling to maintain the set temperature, adjust for the appropriate fan speed and direct the air to the appropriate vents. If specific defrosting is required, press the appropriate button and turn off when the function Is completed. Then make sure to press the "Auto" button again. This procedure works year round.